I'm a mature convincing TV who although married gets to dress fairly regularly when I have the place to myself, normally during the day I'm curious to know what other gurls get up to when they are dressed under such circumstances. I go out shopping (domestic stuff and girlie stuff) and also might go for a (solo) drink or coffee. I'm wanting to expand on those activities but am short on ideas as to what I could do (in heels and a skirt !) in my shortish time slots (3 - 4 hours). Unfortunately, there don't seem to be any other local gurls to socialise with as that would be a pleasant option. Any ideas as to how to expand Susan's activities anyone ??

I'd say that pretty much anything you'd normally do you can do while dressed. I know of one CD who liked to go hiking in the mountains, though I don't think she used heels to do it. If you dress conservatively enough, go to a library or a concert. I even went to religious groups pre-transition and even did a mosque in early transition.

Find a nice restaurant with table cloth (upper class) and enjoy a good lunch and the treatment of beeing called "madam" - that is what I do but in such cases I always go away from where I live in a raddius of abt. 30 min drive or longer.