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    • March 25, 2019 8:40 PM GMT
    • Something to ponder, I originally posted this on the Gender Society law forum.

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      After a week in Strasbourg
      Attending a Seminar EHR Court rulings prisons and trans accomdodation I come back to something I wrote years ago in the general forum, oh I love research.



      In Lebanon, men are legally allowed to have sex with animals, but the animals must be female. Having sexual relations with a male animal is punishable by death. Like THAT makes sense.)
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      In Bahrain, a male doctor may legally examine a woman's genitals, but is prohibited from looking directly at them during the examination. He may only see their reflection in a mirror.

      (Do they look different reversed?)
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      Muslims are banned from looking at the genitals of a corpse. This also applies to undertakers. The sex organs of the deceased must be covered with a brick or piece of wood at all times.

      (A brick?)
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      The penalty for masturbation in Indonesia is decapitation.
      (Much worse than 'going blind!')
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      There are men in Guam whose full-time job is to travel the countryside and deflower young virgins, who pay them for the privilege of having sex for the first time. Reason: under Guam law, it is expressly forbidden for virgins to marry.

      (Let's just think for a minute; is there any job anywhere else in the world that even comes close to this?)
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      In Hong Kong, a betrayed wife is legally allowed to kill her adulterous husband, but may only do so with her bare hands.
      The husband's illicit lover, on the other hand, may be killed in any manner desired.

      (Ah! Justice!)
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      Topless saleswomen are legal in Liverpool, England but only in tropical fish stores.

      (But of course!)
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      In Cali, Colombia, a woman may only have sex with her husband, and the first time this happens, her mother must be in the room to witness the act. In case he needs instruction?)

      (Makes one shudder at the thought.)
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      In Santa Cruz, Bolivia, it is illegal for a man to have sex with a woman and her daughter/son at the same time.

      (I presume this was such a huge problem that they had to pass this law?)
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      In Maryland, it is illegal to sell condoms from vending machines with one exception: Prophylactics may be dispensed from a vending machine only in places where alcoholic beverages are sold for consumption on the premises.'

      (Is this a great country or what? but not as great as Guam!)
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      Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour.

      (Who volunteers for these tests?)
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      The ant can lift 50 times its own weight, can pull 30 times its own weight and always falls over on its right side when intoxicated(From drinking little bottles of???)

      (Did our government pay for this research??)
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      Butterflies taste with their feet.

      (Ah, geez.)
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      An ostrich's eye is bigger than its brain.

      (I know some people like that.)
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      Starfish don't have brains..

      (I know some people like that, too.)
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      And, the best for last?

      Turtles can breathe through their butts.

      Crissie knows quite a few people that can actually talk through their butts.

      The writer is now in Guam …

    • March 22, 2019 2:53 PM GMT
    • I dress firstly to make me feel good in every way I don't do it to impress no one though has been mentioned on this thread you dress like a woman you want to feel like one also so its guys only for me im afraid sexual encounters with other gurls just doesn't do it for me im sorry ladies I have done it twice but was a very long time ago it just didn't feel right.in saying that I have met guys and as soon as I whip it out even they want me to fuck them lol I have told a few to leave my house because of it packing 8 inches of thick welsh meat definitely has its down sides.

    • March 22, 2019 2:51 PM GMT
    • I dress firstly to make me feel good in every way I don't do it to impress no one though has been mentioned on this thread you dress like a woman you want to feel like one also so its guys only for me im afraid sexual encounters with other gurls just doesn't do it for me im sorry ladies I have done it twice but was a very long time ago it just didn't feel right.in saying that I have met guys and as soon as I whip it out even they want me to fuck them lol I have told a few to leave my house because of it packing 8 inches of thick welsh meat definitely has its down sides.

    • November 7, 2018 9:25 PM GMT
    • We met a while back, she was the same sizes has me. I came out to her about my gender problems and we shared an evening getting made up and dressed. Another night we did the same and I brought some clothes and stockings. We were fine until our eyes met and that spark ignited a fantasy of hers, to have sex with another female. Well, it involved oral and toys at first. by the end of this stage, I was in tension down below. My control garments were not happy. She released it from its confinement and we had full on dressed sex. We kept on meeting and doing it until my job changed. She found me on Fb again and She is now married to a guy. But it was interesting and helpful with dressing. Oh, going for a walk was a blast. I had gone to meetings before from home, leaving at night and turning up in the early hours. Had sex with a guy in a Hotel room into CDs and TGs. That was not the first time, but at least fully dressed.

    • November 7, 2018 9:24 PM GMT
    • We met a while back, she was the same sizes has me. I came out to her about my gender problems and we shared an evening getting made up and dressed. Another night we did the same and I brought some clothes and stockings. We were fine until our eyes met and that spark ignited a fantasy of hers, to have sex with another female. Well, it involved oral and toys at first. by the end of this stage, I was in tension down below. My control garments were not happy. She released it from its confinement and we had full on dressed sex. We kept on meeting and doing it until my job changed. She found me on Fb again and She is now married to a guy. But it was interesting and helpful with dressing. Oh, going for a walk was a blast. I had gone to meetings before from home, leaving at night and turning up in the early hours. Had sex with a guy in a Hotel room into CDs and TGs. That was not the first time, but at least fully dressed.

    • October 28, 2018 10:28 PM GMT
    • have had sex with men while dressed and it was fantastic, being treated and loved as a woman. first choice for me when I am female.

    • March 22, 2019 2:44 PM GMT
    • all colours here to though whites im short of will have to get some new ones lol any excuse isn't it ladies?

    • November 22, 2018 2:49 PM GMT
    • I love lace panties, they have to be black. Have several other in various colours. P?is two divine pair of DK just adore of the feel of the reactivated legs, being a mature lady I wear them in the cold weather!. And YES I wear panties in bed.

    • November 22, 2018 2:49 PM GMT
    • I love lace panties, they have to be black. Have several other in various colours. P?is two divine pair of DK just adore of the feel of the reactivated legs, being a mature lady I wear them in the cold weather!. And YES I wear panties in bed.

    • November 22, 2018 1:42 PM GMT
    • I like a maroon silky pair with strings, got them as a set. But like their softness after I tidy up my body. They are smooth against my skin and I wear them out until I can change them later. I find using coconut butter soothes your hairless body. I like to find another pair like them lined with black silk as well. Sometimes silk slips down while out, ok with jeans. Skirt might be a problem.

    • October 26, 2018 11:40 PM BST
    • I wear all sorts of colours, none which denotes my mood - horny in everything!

      Is that slutty of me?

    • October 26, 2018 11:40 PM BST
    • I wear all sorts of colours, none which denotes my mood - horny in everything!

      Is that slutty of me?

    • March 19, 2019 11:59 AM GMT
    • Well that was a waste of time

    • March 18, 2019 7:12 PM GMT
    • https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/mar/05/jenni-murray-transgender-not-real-women-sunday-times-magazine

      One needs to read the link, I can't be arsed to apply for the rights to re-publish the article.



      Firstly they need to be familiar with other posts I have made on inherited conditions, just because a person is born with a visible sex distinction, (genitalia) from which a determination of birth registration is made (sex @ birth) in the case of trangendered people this can be misleading. One has only to be familiar with conditions, for instance



      Klinefelter's syndrome, 47, XXY, or XXY syndrome is a condition in which human males have an extra X chromosome.



      Reifenstein's Syndrome, Most forms of AIS involve a variable degree of undervirilization and/or infertility in XY persons of any gender. A person with complete androgen insensitivity syndrome (CAIS) has a female external appearance despite a 46XY karyotype and undescended testes, a condition once called "testicular feminization" a phrase now considered both derogatory and inaccurate. Since 1990, major scientific advances have greatly expanded medical understanding and management of the molecular mechanisms of the clinical features of AIS.



      CNS Brain male feminisation, The medial posterior region of the bed nucleus of the stria terminalis (BSTMP) and the locus coeruleus (LC) show opposite patterns of sexual dimorphism. The BSTMP in males is greater in volume and number of neurons than in females (male N female) while in the LC, the opposite is true (female N male). To investigate the possible role of the androgen receptor (AR) in the masculinization of these two structures, males with the testicular feminization mutation (Tfm) were compared to their control littermate males. No differences were seen in the number of neurons of the BSTMP between Tfm and their control littermate males, while in the LC, Tfm males have a greater number of neurons than their control littermate males. These results show that the AR is involved in the control of neuron number in the LC but not in the BSTMP. Results based on the LC suggest that when females have a larger brain area than males, masculinization in males may be achieved through the AR, with androgens perhaps decreasing cell survival.
      Sex differences in the mammalian brain have two main characteristics: they often occur in neural circuits related
      to reproductive physiology and behaviour and they are seen in two opposite morphological patterns In one
      pattern, males have greater volumes and/or number of neurons than females (male N female), while in the other, the opposite is true (female N male) Existing evidence suggest that gonadal androgens are involved in the development of sex differences in structures that are larger in males than in females.



      New born babies rarely have DNA or chromosome tests for mutant genes unless there are obvious visible defects, this also applies to brain scans, so how can people make judgements as to the legal recognition and acceptance of people who were incorrectly labelled at birth who later decide they are the wrong gender.



      https://gendersociety.com/articles/176/the-science-behind-reifenstein-s-syndrome

      https://gendersociety.com/forums/topic/9870/cns-brain-male-feminisation

      https://gendersociety.com/forums/topic/7790/synopsis-of-the-etiology-of-gender

      https://gendersociety.com/forums/topic/7805/heteronormativity





    • March 8, 2019 10:23 PM GMT
    • i dress because i love wearing womens clothes its feels so natural i dont fancy men some tgirl i think will show me to tgirl sex more bottom than top i do like to play often with my dildo but i dont feel gay bi or what ever just a woman when i dress i hate my bits down below

    • March 2, 2019 1:34 AM GMT
    • Transgender is a complex topic, where consensual and precise definitions have not yet been reached. Usually, the only way to find out how exactly people identify themselves is to ask them, and sometimes, transgender people either cannot or will not define themselves any more specifically than transgender, queer, or genderqueer.

      Books and articles written about transgender people or culture are often outdated by the time they are published, if not already outdated at the time of composition, due to inappropriate and/or outdated questions or premises. Not only psychology and medicine, but also social sciences deal with transgender people, and each starts from a very different point of view, offers very different perspectives, and uses a different nomenclature. The difference is mirrored by the attitude of transgender people towards transgender issues

      In late 20th century America, the closet had become a central metaphor for grasping the history and social dynamics of gay life. The notion of the closet is inseparable from the concept of coming out. The closet narrative sets up an implicit dualism between being "in" or being "out". Those who are "in" are often stigmatized as living false, unhappy lives

      In the early stages of the lesbian, gay or bisexual identity development process, people feel confused and experience turmoil. In 1993, Michelangelo Signorile wrote Queer in America, in which he explored the harm caused both to a closeted person and to society in general by being closeted. Homosexuality is becoming increasingly normalized and the shame and secrecy often associated with it appears to be in decline. The metaphor of the closet hinges upon the notion that stigma management is a way of life,. however the opposite seems to be the case with transsexuals and cross dressers .the main reason the social expectations of the norm, heteronormativity, the two sexes, male and female. The refusal of society in general to accept the unknown, typically .religous parties and the uneducated.

      Historically, clinicians labeled transsexual people as heterosexual or homosexual relative to their sex assigned at birth. Most transsexual people find this offensive, and prefer to define their sexual orientation relative to their gender identity. Thus, a trans woman attracted to men is likely to identify as a heterosexual woman as opposed to being attracted to *same sex* women, a lesbian..

      To avoid confusion and offense, the terms "gynephilia" and "androphilia" are sometimes used to describe attraction to women and men, respectively.The terms "homosexual" and "heterosexual" are problematic for transgender people who do not identify as male or female. More broadly, terms defining attraction in terms of men and women are often rejected by people attracted to those outside the gender binary.expectations of the norm and generally by the majority of gays relevant to their sexual orientations.

      One study published in 1977 suggests that transgender people have more heterosexual than homosexual experiences. Bu did these studies take into account, how transgender people perceive their own gender?? Another study published in 1976 found an almost equal distribution of transsexuals between three distinct categories: homosexual, asexual, and heterosexual.However, this study only assessed 42 male-to-female transsexual people who had undergone gender reassignment surgery and does not address bisexuality.Furthermore, these categories have been rejected by many transsexual people as pejorative.

      This topic was raised several times in the forums, one of which was entitled ‘Does this make me gay?’ To which I replied, ‘’If you think like a woman, believe you are a woman and present as one, then no, it would indicate you’re a straight heterosexual woman if you fancy and have sex with men albeit anal sex. To which several people were outraged stating they were not gay men in frocks and would never think of having any sort of sexual relation ship with a man, . .............These types of responses seemed illogical to me? if not would they not see themselves as lesbians? Quite a few natal women enjoy anal sex, does that make them homosexual from the male involved viewpoint? Perhaps from his view he might be fantasising about screwing another mans bum. Each individual, has different needs, before I had surgery I spent a lot of time munching pillow, with numerous men, never imagining I was a man having my arse screwed, I was a woman having sex, giving pleasure and receiving pleasure the only way I could, now I get and give pleasure to my partner either way.

    • March 2, 2019 1:15 AM GMT
    • I am certainly not judging anyone to be what makes them happy, part time, some of us have to go that extra bit to live a life and be content and it is not a life we would have chosen if there was an option to be normal perse, my condition did'nt give me the option of fathering children, living life as a man. who would willingly embrace the complications and pain and rejection that being transgendered entails.

      As for men, fancying transexuals how can we know if they are closet gays? when most of them would not openly go out in public with a girl who perhaps did'nt pass and why did they always want to suck my dick before I had surgery or try and get me to screw them in the bum?, now I do not have a dick, when they find that out they lose interest!

    • March 1, 2019 8:41 PM GMT
    • I thought I had replied to this, I think it is how one perceives themselves, many times I have seen the 'does this make me gay question' gender identity does not directly relate to ones sexuality, if you live as a woman, think like a woman, then any relationship with a man should or would appear to be a heterosexual relationship, and if the same applies to your persona and you restrict your relationships with women then sure that would make one a lesbian, but sexuality and gender together is as diverse as the so called social norms. The thing I hate is the people that claim to be transgendered women is when they state YUK! the thought of having sex or a relationship with a man is abhorrent and disgusting. Showing ignorance and no understanding of the obvious, then there is the complexities of who'm one actually falls in love with. As for labels, what are you going to call people who are different from socially accepted norms?, 'IT'

    • February 28, 2019 8:56 AM GMT
    • I am straight and only interested in friendship.. maybe some company for going out to clubs etc... i am strictly platonic and i like dressing sexy :) hit me up if you are in US and align with my thoughts

    • January 30, 2019 11:38 AM GMT
    • ok since 5 Nov 2012 when i first posted a comment on this some things have changed personally at least in my head, but, sadly not in any practical / physically measureable way

      ok i prefer to be me, i dress to please me, and sometimes i feel sexy and it gets my mind to wandering around the edges of what i thought were my landmarks regarding sexuality, if it also ends up with me looking 'halfway decent' then bonus lol

      if i see a girl ( cis / post / pre op / or even a cute passable tg ) i react to her presentation, her overall femme-ness, her makeup, dress-sense, and 'effort' she put in to look good

      ive now realised im not fussed if she has an 'inny' or an 'outy' OR if her breasts are 'home grown', hormone induced, silicone enhanced ( though within reasonable limits ) or if she makes the effort with silicone prothesis

      if she attracts my attention, has an amazing smile / giggle, is cute or dare i say it sexy ( ok shallow things here, nice long legs, cute ass, NOT a stick insect but has curves ) then IF she has a similar reaction when she sees me ...

      then hell yeah lets see where it goes, and yes that IS a double or maybe treble entande ;-)

    • January 24, 2019 11:11 AM GMT
    • i am straight, but i love to wear panties,stockings ad looking at pictures at tv and cd,s

    • January 23, 2019 9:15 PM GMT
    • Just thought i'd add my 2p worth,
      Interesting thread, I've read some at the start, some in the middle and the most recent and it seems there really isn't a "norm". The early post mentioned that there were estimates of 80% straight, but I tend to agree with the last post, as the default assumption is that TV's must be gay, so all very confusing.
      I guess we all have our desires and motivations, all very different, but then we are all individuals, it would be boring if we were all the same!
      Embrace who you are, try something f you want to, don't if you don't, but the most important thing to me is be faithful and honest. Something I recently discovered when sharing my "femme" self with my wife.
      For the record (if there is one kept!), i'm straight, TV/CD (is there a difference between TV & CD anyway?) happily married.

    • January 14, 2019 10:57 PM GMT
    • I've had quite a few monikers, some absurdly slutty ones, but I'm happy now with Allison Ashcroft as it goes with my age and time of life - and is a temporary deception as to what lies beneath!

    • December 12, 2018 7:07 PM GMT
    • I've seen this topic posted and thought I'd replied to it ages back...….but I hadn't!

      I took my first name from a girl I dated not long after leaving school. She wore a lot of pencil skirts and I was in awe of her a little. She was as cute as a button.
      I gave myself a middle name of Amanda, as it is what I'd have been called by my parents if I'd been born a girl. My younger sister inherited that title.
      Brookes is simply my last name.

    • November 30, 2018 2:15 AM GMT
    • I always liked Jenny and it's a nice fit for me.