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    • February 25, 2021 6:51 PM GMT
    • I do all my shopping as a woman and ofcourse try in the ladies fitting room!
      Like M+S and Debenhams in UK - unfortunately Debenhams now closing!

    • February 20, 2021 7:32 PM GMT
    • Amazon has a Slutty Dresses category

    • January 24, 2021 9:01 AM GMT
    • First guy I had sex with went off to Guam after I told him he was rubbish in bed

    • October 22, 2020 1:46 PM BST
    • Glad you told me about the firework as I was planning on letting one off using my bum as a launching pad and The local police station as Cape Canaveral. Think will give it a miss now x

    • October 21, 2020 9:14 PM BST
    • In Lebanon, men are legally allowed to have sex with animals, but the animals must be female. Having sexual relations with a male animal is punishable by death. Like THAT makes sense.)
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      In Bahrain, a male doctor may legally examine a woman's genitals, but is prohibited from looking directly at them during the examination. He may only see their reflection in a mirror.

      (Do they look different reversed?)
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      Muslims are banned from looking at the genitals of a corpse. This also applies to undertakers. The sex organs of the deceased must be covered with a brick or piece of wood at all times.

      (A brick?)
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      The penalty for masturbation in Indonesia is decapitation.
      (Much worse than 'going blind!')
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      There are men in Guam whose full-time job is to travel the countryside and deflower young virgins, who pay them for the privilege of having sex for the first time. Reason: under Guam law, it is expressly forbidden for virgins to marry.

      (Let's just think for a minute; is there any job anywhere else in the world that even comes close to this?)
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      In Hong Kong, a betrayed wife is legally allowed to kill her adulterous husband, but may only do so with her bare hands.
      The husband's illicit lover, on the other hand, may be killed in any manner desired.

      (Ah! Justice!)
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      Topless saleswomen are legal in Liverpool, England but only in tropical fish stores.

      (But of course!)
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      In Cali, Colombia, a woman may only have sex with her husband, and the first time this happens, her mother must be in the room to witness the act. In case he needs instruction?)

      (Makes one shudder at the thought.)
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      In Santa Cruz, Bolivia, it is illegal for a man to have sex with a woman and her daughter/son at the same time.

      (I presume this was such a huge problem that they had to pass this law?)
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      In Maryland, it is illegal to sell condoms from vending machines with one exception: Prophylactics may be dispensed from a vending machine only in places where alcoholic beverages are sold for consumption on the premises.'

      (Is this a great country or what? but not as great as Guam!) Just in case they run out of glasses?
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      Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour.

      (Who volunteers for these tests?)
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      The ant can lift 50 times its own weight, can pull 30 times its own weight and always falls over on its right side when intoxicated(From drinking little bottles of???)

      (Did our government pay for this research??)
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      Butterflies taste with their feet.

      (Ah, geez.)
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      An ostrich's eye is bigger than its brain.

      (I know some people like that.)
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      Starfish don't have brains..

      (I know some people like that, too.)
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      And, the best for last?

      Turtles can breathe through their butts.

      Crissie knows people that can talk through their butts

      The writer is now in Guam …




      Last but not least its not illegal to place a fire cracker in your arse and set it off




      Cristine Jennifer Shye. B/L. B/Acc

    • November 8, 2020 7:13 PM GMT
    • I normally just use an old mobile number to make account look legit, so far I've never had any problems.

      So it's more likely someone reporting your posts / images that is getting FB to ask for ID, as normally they don't care who or what you are.

      Also, if you use VPN's it can sometimes make them block your account and things.

    • November 6, 2020 1:17 PM GMT
    • Happened to me a year ago ,no longer use facebook there loss lol

    • November 4, 2020 3:27 PM GMT
    • I created a facebook account in Debbies name , now they've blocked it and require ID such as a driving licence to unblock it . It feels like they're trying to out me this way , so girls beware if you are thinking of starting one up they've done it to a few other girls too .

    • October 28, 2020 9:28 AM GMT
    • I think you might have left out a word as to what it seemed to you to be, but I think I follow what you are saying and I agree that they're kinda incongruous beliefs.

    • October 28, 2020 9:23 AM GMT
    • I get what your saying, it just seemed to me that a so called trans woman saying having sex with men is disgusting, and claiming to be straight at the same time and only having sex with women. Me depends who'm I'm in love with at the time.

    • October 28, 2020 8:08 AM GMT
    • Me personally? I am pansexual but I do have leanings that put my standards for what I find attractive at varying levels based entirely on physical appearance (which is not what I base my attraction solely on. I have to know the kind of person someone is to be attracted to them unless they are super hot or something). If you identify as female and I find you attractive (no matter the contents of your undergarments or lack thereof) that would be to me a homosexual attraction. If you identify as male and I find you attractive (no matter the contents of your undergarments or lack thereof) that would be to me a heterosexual attraction. Trans or cis, it doesn't influence whether I view it as homosexual or heterosexual. If someone is non binary I don't consider it to be necessarily either of those and I am unsure if there is a word for attraction to someone as such, and don't really think one is necessary. Not up to me to decide that though, so *shrug*

    • October 28, 2020 7:51 AM GMT
    • If your a trans woman, present as such, having sex with men, pre-op or post op would define you as heterosexual a man woman relationship, if your a trans woman and still only have sex with women, surely that would make the trans person a lesbian, what I found confusing was some trans women stating they were straight and the thought of having sex with men was disgusting. One even stated ''sex with men? I'm not a gay man in a dress'' that's illogical. As for men needing sex with trans women, some are just closet gays especially the ones who want to be the recipient of anal sex. There are men that appreciated transwomen, as women even if they are pre-op and willing to give a girl oral sex in reciprocation in giving pleasure.

      Two trans women having sex, pre-op whatever that logically would make them lesbians

    • October 27, 2020 6:48 PM GMT
    • If there is one thing that I saw more than anything on twitter or in cam shows were guys asking if it made them gay because they thought I was hot or some other trans girl was hot or whatever (other than unsolicited dick pics). If it is the femininity that attracts you then no, it isn't gay. If it's for the cock and the cock alone then you might have some stuff you need to figure out for yourself, but if you aren't attracted to them if the cock is attached to man yet are if attached to a woman then I would say no it doesn't. But labels are only useful for groups and woefully inadequate regarding the individual so whatever.

    • October 22, 2020 1:50 PM BST
    • FFS. I am what I am. I am unique as we all are. I refuse to be labelled. I am mesexual ;o)

    • October 21, 2020 7:59 PM BST
    • http://lgbt.wikia.com/wiki/Blanchard,_Bailey,_and_Lawrence_theory_controversy


      The "BBL Controversy" also known as the "Autogynephilia Controversy" is an ongoing and heated line of discussion in the transgendered community. The subject, Blanchard, Bailey, and Lawrence theory, is a theory of transsexual taxonomy developed by Ray Blanchard,[1] which classifies male-to-female transsexuals according to whether they have an autogynephilic or "homosexual transsexual" motivation.[2]

      The theory had not received much attention outside of sexology until sexologist Anne Lawrence, who self-identifies as an autogynephile, published a series of web articles about the hypothesis in the late 1990s.[3] Lawrence has since published and lectured about the hypothesis.[4][5][6]

      The hypothesis received wider attention with the 2003 publication of Bailey's popular psychology book The Man Who Would Be Queen. The book is written for a public audience;[7] instead of citing sources, figures, or statistics to support the assertions made, Bailey uses anecdotal evidence to illustrate the hypothesis. The book contains his casual observations as well as quotations from casual conversations.

      If you have time to waste, don't waste it reading Baileys book, lol, go sit in the park and watch the grass grow.

      Evidence and complaints filed against J. Michael Bailey for practicing as a clinical psychologist without a license, and then subsequently publishing confidential clinical case-history information without permissions about his encounters with transexuals in his book ''The Man who would be Queen''

      The book was originally based on Blanchards theory, that a transexuals sexual orientation could not be changed and that sexual encounters would allways be of a homosexual basis. a transwoman having sexual relationships with a natal female, should be labled as lesbianism fantasy based on the transwomans perception of herself avoiding homosexuality as a natural instinct., if the transwoman were to indulge in sexual encounters with natal men, it was because the transwoman was a suppressed or latent homosexual, that transexuals could not take on a permanent sexual orientation identity of the chosen gender. that the result of his research would indicate that it was role playing to supress self disgust with the unatural desires that were felt by the individual at the time.

      The first hypothese of his theory lesbians, technically that would be correct, if the subject was suffering a gender identity disorder and truly believed they were a woman, but being a lesbian does not mean that the subject person is not trans, self revulsion of themselves and rejecting all things associated with a male image, perhaps unpleasant experiences with encounters with alpha males overules the natural order of things, social presumptions, perhaps like some natal women, they are just born with a penchant for relationships with other women.

      There was a forum topic here titled, does this make me gay? Crossdressing. Some replied, ''Just because I dress in womens clothes and I am a woman, does not make me gay'' When I expouned my theory, ''If you think like a woman, believe your a woman, then the natural premise would be that sexual encounters with men would indicate your heterosexual, straight, if you are a woman'' A couple replied, ''Thats a disgusting thought'' It is not a case of right or wrong by preference, its a logical valid conclusion. Being trans and sexual orientation are not the same but sexual preferences still have the same connotations, Gay, Straight, Bi. Something both Blanchard and Bailey failed to recognise in their very ham fisted explanations to a quite easily reconisable fact.

      Cristine Jennifer Shye. B/L. B/Acc

    • October 22, 2020 1:38 PM BST
    • Love it Christine.

    • October 21, 2020 9:02 PM BST
    • This is something to think about when negative people are doing their best to rain on your parade. So remember this story the next time someone who knows nothing, and cares less, tries to make your life miserable.

      A woman was at her hairdresser's getting her hair styled for a trip to Rome with her husband. She mentioned the trip to the hairdresser, who responded:

      " Rome ? Why would anyone want to go there? It's crowded and dirty. You're crazy to go to Rome . So, how are you getting there?"

      "We're taking Continental," was the reply. "We got a great rate!"

      "Continental?" exclaimed the hairdresser. " That's a terrible airline. Their planes are old, their flight attendants are ugly, and they're always late. So, where are you staying inRome?"

      "We'll be at this exclusive little place over on Rome's Tiber River called Teste."

      "Don't go any further. I know that place. Everybody thinks its gonna be something special and exclusive, but it's really a dump.

      "We're going to go to see the Vatican and maybe get to see the Pope.

      "That's rich," laughed the hairdresser. "You and a million other people trying to see him. He'll look the size of an ant.

      Boy, good luck on this lousy trip of yours. You're going to need it."

      A month later, the woman again came in for a hairdo. The hairdresser asked her about her trip to Rome .

      "It w as wonderful," explained the woman, "not only were we on time in one of Continental's brand new planes, but it was overbooked, and they bumped us up to first class. The food and wine were wonderful, and I had a handsome 28-year-old steward who waited on me hand and foot.

      And the hotel was great! They'd just finished a $5 million remodeling job, and now it's a jewel, the finest hotel in the city. They, too, were overbooked, so they apologized and gave us their owner's suite at no extra charge!"

      "Well," muttered the hairdresser, "that's all well and good, but I know you didn't get to see the Pope."

      "Actually, we were quite lucky, because as we toured the Vatican, a Swiss Guard tapped me on the shoulder, and explained that the Pope likes to meet some of the visitors, and if I'd be so kind as to step into his private room and wait, the Pope would personally greet me.

      Sure enough, five minutes later, the Pope walked through the door and shook my hand! I knelt down and he spoke a few words to me."

      "Oh, really! What'd he say ?"

      He said: "Where'd you get the shitty Hairdo?"

      Cristine Jennifer Shye. B/L. B/Acc

    • October 21, 2020 9:02 PM BST
    • This is something to think about when negative people are doing their best to rain on your parade. So remember this story the next time someone who knows nothing, and cares less, tries to make your life miserable.

      A woman was at her hairdresser's getting her hair styled for a trip to Rome with her husband. She mentioned the trip to the hairdresser, who responded:

      " Rome ? Why would anyone want to go there? It's crowded and dirty. You're crazy to go to Rome . So, how are you getting there?"

      "We're taking Continental," was the reply. "We got a great rate!"

      "Continental?" exclaimed the hairdresser. " That's a terrible airline. Their planes are old, their flight attendants are ugly, and they're always late. So, where are you staying inRome?"

      "We'll be at this exclusive little place over on Rome's Tiber River called Teste."

      "Don't go any further. I know that place. Everybody thinks its gonna be something special and exclusive, but it's really a dump.

      "We're going to go to see the Vatican and maybe get to see the Pope.

      "That's rich," laughed the hairdresser. "You and a million other people trying to see him. He'll look the size of an ant.

      Boy, good luck on this lousy trip of yours. You're going to need it."

      A month later, the woman again came in for a hairdo. The hairdresser asked her about her trip to Rome .

      "It w as wonderful," explained the woman, "not only were we on time in one of Continental's brand new planes, but it was overbooked, and they bumped us up to first class. The food and wine were wonderful, and I had a handsome 28-year-old steward who waited on me hand and foot.

      And the hotel was great! They'd just finished a $5 million remodeling job, and now it's a jewel, the finest hotel in the city. They, too, were overbooked, so they apologized and gave us their owner's suite at no extra charge!"

      "Well," muttered the hairdresser, "that's all well and good, but I know you didn't get to see the Pope."

      "Actually, we were quite lucky, because as we toured the Vatican, a Swiss Guard tapped me on the shoulder, and explained that the Pope likes to meet some of the visitors, and if I'd be so kind as to step into his private room and wait, the Pope would personally greet me.

      Sure enough, five minutes later, the Pope walked through the door and shook my hand! I knelt down and he spoke a few words to me."

      "Oh, really! What'd he say ?"

      He said: "Where'd you get the shitty Hairdo?"

      Cristine Jennifer Shye. B/L. B/Acc

    • October 21, 2020 7:37 PM BST
    • Gynemimetophilia is sexual attraction to male-assigned people who look, act like, or are women, including assigned-male crossdressers. It can also refer to an attraction to trans women. A related term is gynemimesis, which refers to a homosexual male who engages in female impersonation without sex reassignment. Both terms originate in a 1984 paper of John Money and Margaret Lamacz. The terms were used by Money for classification purposes in his gender-transposition theory.
      Andromimetophilia (sometimes misspelled as androminetophilia) is sexual attraction to female-assigned people who look, act like men, or are men; including butch women or trans men. The attraction can be to people who have not undergone any physical transition, or to people who have. Originally (and still predominantly) used to describe the men sexually interested in pre-operative transwomen, the term tranny chaser is now being used in FTM communities as well.

      Many members of the transgender community (particularly in the MTF population) use "tranny chaser" in a pejorative sense, because they consider it a fetish-like attraction to the penis of a pre-operative or non-operative transwoman MTF or to the vagina of a pre- or non-operative transman.. In their path breaking book, True Selves, Helen Boyd and Mildred Brown have suggested that tranny chasing men may be homosexual men in denial. The term "tranny" is itself considered a perjorative by the community.
      In "Diary of a Drag Queen" Daniel Harris describes four types of men interested in him while he was cross-dressed, heterosexual men who wanted the presumed superior oral services of another male, homosexuals who were only interested in his genitals, other cross dressers, and men who were intrigued by the mixture of masculinity and femininity he represented.

      *assigned* means gender at birth.

      According to Helen Boyd, "Tranny chasers are the big bugaboo in the crossdressing community, because their very existence suggests that crossdressers are not all as straight as they claim to be. Chasers are willing to give crossdressed men the kind of attention they desire, and that attention (a drink, a compliment) validates the crossdresser's experience, and completes the fantasy of feeling like a woman.

      Trans women on the other hand, with a definate gender identity problem, dysphoria, are very different, in the main appealing to a different type of man, commonly referred to as Tranny admirers, (not to be confused with tranny shaggers) who are seeking a more empathetic relationship, regardless of the woman being pre-op or post-op, where an opposite penis fetish is not usually involved, considerate male may offer, want to reciprocate in the pleasing department. I was once severley castigated in the forums for suggesting a pre-op transwoman engaging in anal sexual encounters with men was normal, the woman perceives herself as female, ergo a straight, heterosexual women, a woman that enjoys anal sex several members here had the opinion that was a disgusting idea, they would never engage with a male, erm, then if they truly present and think they are women, logically that would make them lesbians? choices and ideals are as profound as life itself. Personally sometimes sexual orientation depends soley on who one falls in love with. as in couples staying together after one partner transitions, the love is still there and the others needs and desires are understood and accepted.


      References in pop culture

      Barry Zuckerkorn, a lawyer on the television series Arrested Development has a penchant for transgender prostitutes.
      Matt McNamara, a high school student on the television series Nip/Tuck, learns that a former lover is transsexual and becomes fascinated with them.
      RuPaul's 2009 studio album Champion includes a track titled "Tranny Chaser".


      Cristine Jennifer Shye. B/L. B/Acc

    • September 14, 2020 10:33 AM BST
    • I wear various colours, I like to match my underwear to whatever outfit I am wearing.

    • July 2, 2020 10:27 AM BST
    • i'm a PINK gurl, so naturally i prefer pink panties. pink is my favorite color, period. however, i have worn other colors also.

    • September 7, 2020 6:45 AM BST
    • "I do agree with Hannah though for ones own personal happiness and contentment people with a genuine gender identity problem should elect to go all the way."

      It is indeed, as the title says, not that simple. I lost everyone I called a friend and my entire family overnight when I came out as trans. Since then, I made a lot of new friends only to lose all of them (99% of them overnight as well) whenthe first new friend and person I cared about and thought of as if they were family betrayed me and despite all that we went through together and all that I went through up til then because of and for her cost me my career and turned those new friends against me. I have lost every connection to everyone that I ever had and at my age and location there isn't much of a possibility of me finding anyone with whom to make new ones. I am much more comfortable being the new me than before I started transitioning, or at least I was before the stress, depression, and isolation left me with a heart problem and my physical appearance went to shit. Now I hate my body as much as I did before, I am broke and jobless and spent years trying to find a jobsince losing mine and the one after because of that former friend too, I have zero connections to anyone, and I went through a large number of extremely traumatic events that I wouldn't have gone through if I hadn't transitioned. My gender dysphoria was lessened slightly by HRT but I will never be able to afford GCS/SRS or which ever you refer to it as because it would all be out of pocket. Plus, there isn't an electrolysis person within 150 kilometers of me after the one here randomly quit one day and I wanted to get follicle transplant for the balding areas I had that didn't regrow enough to hide them from medication alone.

      This is why I said not to transition. I was miserable before transitioning but I had the means to survive and people to spend time with to have some sort of connection to outside of the internet. Now I am miserable, alone, broke, broken, with no direction or any idea what to do about any of that because I have tried everything I can think of several times and the only thing I got in return was a slightly reduced feeling of gender dysphoria.

      Shana aka the Don't Transition mentioned

    • August 11, 2020 9:57 PM BST
    • Quote Hannah Louise;

      ''Sorry but, I find it horrifying that someone would purposely call themselves 'Don't Transition'
      If they have experienced a nasty response from being transgender then, I'm sorry but, nobody should even suggest that something so important to an individual with Gender Dysphoria who, has no other option than to transition, is a bad decision to make, just because of their own experiences. Being Trans myself, I can only say that, I've had nothing but support, admiration and positive for the life changing decision I made and, I'm so happy that I went through with it.

      Me
      Whilst I admire Hannah Louise, not all of us are blessed with supportive friends and family in the beginning of transition, I have shared my childhood horrors with a few close friends on here. losing my immediate family at a very young age destroyed me. Being what I was did not earn me many real close friends, then there was no empathy or support at school, some would say I was very lucky to look like I do, did. I do agree with Hannah though for ones own personal happiness and contentment people with a genuine gender identity problem should elect to go all the way.

      I was born with a condition, Reifensteins Syndrome, started developing breast at the age of 14, fortunately I was then living with my court appointed guardian, who was understanding of my penchant for wanting to be female, supported me and took me to see councillors eventually just before my 16th birthday I was refereed to Addenbrooks Gene Clinic where I was diagnosed with my condition. At the clinic I met a person with a similar condition she was 14, her parents had her put on a regime of testosterone and steroids, and forced her to have a mastectomy, but it did not change her yearnings and needs, Hannah's main point I think is important, there is no cure, days gone by when electric shock treatment aversion therapy was applied, nothing worked or changed how a person felt about their gender.

      The most important thing though is to remember that not everyone's circumstances are the same, is it easier to transition when one is older, with experience of life and can adopt an attitude to deal with transition, but then life can be complicated with attitudes from work colleagues, friends and relationships based on loyalty and responsibilities, or like me young immature and vulnerable doing a lot of sordid things seeking recognition acceptance and wanting to be loved for what I was.

    • June 28, 2020 12:01 PM BST
    • Oh, honey, I try to be a gentle, sweet female! Of course, there are times when my passion goes overboard! I could be a sweet , excited lover, at times!
      Roxanne Lanyon

    • June 28, 2020 11:10 AM BST
    • <blockquote><strong><a href="/se4/profile/Roxanne70">Roxanne Lanyon</a> said:</strong><br />I used to enjoy the feel of a pretty dress occasionally, years and years ago. But now, I have aged a bit, and want to enjoy the feel of an understanding and loving man! I think I could make him so happy, and be a very sweet, gentle spouse for him.
      Lord, I would love that, so much!
      Roxanne Lanyon, A Woman at Heart</blockquote><br />

      Admit it your a Hussey! lol